the Senorita | Discovering Her

Do you want to learn? A teacher is always willing to teach you. Are you stuck with some technical problem? There are millions of users online who will love to help you out. Are you unhappy and you want someone to take care of you? You will find your girlfriend extending a helping hand for you.

Now think for a few minutes. Think about the times when you were in a problem and sooner or later you found someone to help you. In some form or another there were people helping you whenever you were in trouble. There could have been times when your friend wanted your help. Though, when she saw that you were in a mess she put herself second, and chose to comfort you instead so that a tough situation didn’t seem so rough all of a sudden. So why can’t you repeat the act? Why not?

One of a woman’s most prominent characteristics is to take care of her man. If she admires him then his portrait is imprinted on her brain all the time. She tries to find out what he likes and what he doesn’t. She tries hard to fulfill his needs. She is ready to give whenever possible. She is worried if he is unhappy; and she is ready to listen to what he has to say; and if it were solely in her hands, she’d even solve his problems for him. To summarize, she is ready to give more and more just to make him happy.

Nonetheless, don’t forget that there is a limit to every behavior. When you weren’t happy she was there with you, which is why for you the relationship was heading the right direction. But, do you ever think about her? Are you actually concerned about her? After all she is a human too!

Men need to understand that women have a habit of giving more and more without expecting anything in return, but there comes a time when she starts feeling needy. Those are the times when they will want men to fulfill their end of the bargain, and if that doesn’t happen, the relationship goes to gallows.

Remember that women are gifted with the potential to withstand any kind of problems, which you are facing. And in return they deserve a LOT more than what you are currently giving to her.

Do not give birth to the situation where she ends the relationship with the lines “I gave you a lot. I was there with you when you needed me. Yet, when I gave you a chance to show me what you can do for me, you made me realize that I deserve a lot more. Sorry… but I think we are done.”

So, better start giving before it’s too late.

Warning: There are times when women want men to just sit next to them and listen to what they are saying. Note this, just shut up and listen. In this article I tried to explain the situation when she actually needs more than just your presence.

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