“Reading maketh a full man; conference a ready man; and writing an exact man” - Francis Bacon
Expressing your happiness is always an easy job. Whenever you are excited then as per the rule of nature you will shout out the reason behind your happiness to the people around you. The tensions around you evaporate and you feel like partying with your friends. But one should remember that every coin has two sides.
Scenes are totally different once you switch to dull mood. You go silent, you feel like kicking everyone off, and you want to but aren’t able to share your problems. Even after you somehow makeup your mind to share your thoughts with someone whom you trust, might often find later on that after all the hard work you were still able to recite only half of the story.
It is natural characteristic of humans to loose control whenever they are in tension. As a result it becomes impossible for them to completely express themselves, and such situations can cause blunders in sensitive relationships. It is natural characteristic of males to fight with their problems themselves and females on the other hand share their problems with someone close to them. This uneven match in thinking process between males and females is the root cause of problems almost always.
No wonder why many people prefer keeping personal diaries or personal blogs where they write about themselves and their daily life happenings. Writing down something which is there in your brain helps you ease the weight which your brain is carrying. It is scientifically proved that once someone writes down his problems, then his tension reduces to half. Keeping personal diaries or a personal blog might not be everyone’s choice as there are chances of such writings going public and being read by someone who isn’t entitled to read it.
This is when sharing your thoughts with your friend is the best option. There must be that special someone out there whom you trust but you aren’t able to gather the courage to speak out what you want to. The best way out is to write down an email, detail your problem, and shoot it to her with a request for some suggestion. Once you know that someone else is also working on your problem then things will ease out for you.
This also helps in keeping your relationship crystal clear. Whenever you feel like there is something between you two which needs to be shared but somehow you aren’t able to share it face to face then please do not waste time and write about it and show it to her. If your relationship is crystal clear then no power on earth can break it. Try it!
Mystery is enough to attract anyone’s attention so why not cash on this characteristic of humans (and that girl whom you want to propose.) Arrange for a unique puzzle for her and ask her to decipher it. It would be great if you are able to find a unique puzzle which matches her inclination. Like if she loves colors then how about a puzzle which arranges different colors in order and along with that it shows the words which you want to say (it all depends on your innovation.)
I am sure that as the puzzle unravels, her joy will grow exponentially.
How did you propose her? Or do you have any unique ideas of proposing her? I would love to hear those in comments below or maybe you would like to tell me that in private.
I started blogging somewhere around October 2006 but had to leave working on that blog due to my exams. I wasn’t prepared for the sudden drought in available free time. After my exams once again I started blogging on a blogspot blog on January 1st 2007. Slowly after following established bloggers for months I learned how a self hosted blog was the best way to blogging success. This made me switch to a self hosted wordpress blog in August 2008 and my blogspot blog’s articles were moved to my self hosted wordpress blog CompuWorld. I had earned some money out of my previous blogspot blog and hence was able to pay for the hosting charges for one full year in advance.
Being a computer science engineering student my inclination towards tech blogging is understood but somehow I kept feeling that I have the free time to handle another blog along with the freelancing work which goes on side by side. This thought kept pinching me and soon I launched a blog on girls. I have been living student life for long and this was an easier topic for me to handle. the Senorita was born on 6th January.
By now in my one year of blogging experience I had learned that to gain success you need to be unique. Hence I hired a designer and here you are: a completely unique logo plus a great looking magazine style theme along with a separate blog page for those who love the bottom up style of a blogging.
Though it took some time but people at Fash Designs kept their cool with all my grumblings and add-ons which I kept requesting while the design was in process. For cheap prices they gave me a unique logo (which me and my friends are loving) plus a clean looking design.
Naif was responsible for coding the tough design and I mean it; this guy is awesome. He gave me exactly what I wanted plus he took my passwords and did setup the theme all by himself. Believe it, he had the passwords with him and he didn’t hack into my admin panel. Along with the coding he kept teaching me how the rules and regulations were important and that is the reason why the current code is CSS/HTML validated.
The experience was awesome and the start has been great. With my first featured article earning around 20,000 visits from stumble upon and now the new design looking great plus I have already completed articles for this blog till August 2008, it is time to publicize the blog and gather huge amounts of visits on a larger scale.
If you want any support for your new design then do contact me or the designers of this site directly. Their links are given above.
Females today are competing equally with males in every field, and many times they are even found to lead them. In many situations men do not prefer a female conquering them, and this characteristic of theirs should be very well understood. Even though such kind of thoughts generate competition to some extent they also generate unwanted tension within the relationship, which results in hatred and later in break ups.
In any relationship men will always prefer to be the leaders because they are taught to be so; and many times just to show their power they go on to break the hearts of their female counterparts. Males need to understand that the days of men leading females are gone. The world is moving and so are the thoughts of both the sexes. Instead of fighting to enforce your ideas on her, the better way out is to discuss various situations with a cool mind.
An easy way to find a place in her brain is to appreciate her ideas. Let her speak because she loves to speak, listen to her, and IF possible appreciate her ideas. At any stage if you think that she is heading the wrong way, then discuss the situation with her and try to propose other ways with the situation can be worked around. Be easy with her and don’t try to force your decision on her.
Regularly suppressing her and her thoughts will result in her hiding things from you.
Slowly, as she realizes how much easier it is to just hide things from you than to make an effort and share, she will make this to be a part of the regular process; and I am sure no male will want his female partner to hide things from him. So instead of suppressing her thoughts, as stated earlier, it is always a better decision to firstly listen to her and once she is done, to put forward another way out and that too in an easy manner. Remember to be cool, calm, composed, and all other adjectives.
I have stated above that males should listen to her, and if possible request her to re-think her decision BUT this does not mean that they should try to change her decisions every time. Instead, if you think that she is the girl you want to be with then learn to love her completely and respect all her thoughts.
At times you may feel like she wants you to conquer you (just because she is madly in love with you) so ignore it and try not to overdo your efforts. Anything in excess is not good for health.
Let us think like a painter. While a painter is in a bright mood, his creation will be embellished with bright and lively colors. On the other hand, once this mood goes down all kinds of dark (and dull) colors take over the canvas.
Similarly, it is a musician’s state of mind, which brings about either a party mix or the blues; it is the thinking of a fashion designer, which results into either appealing outfits or the opposite; and likewise the outfit donned by a female directly reflects her present mood.
It is well known that females do take much care of their looks, and are always highly concerned about their clothing (even though they might disagree with this). A small amount of analysis regarding the types of outfits she wears from day to day reveals her changing moods quite consistently.
Relationship with the opposite sex is always an integral part of any human being’s life. Men are always concerned about their female partners and females are very much concerned about their male partners. Concentrating on females, as this website is about Discovering Her, she tries her best to impress him most of the time. She prepares herself for dates and works on herself for any parties or weekend gatherings. This is when her interest in that particular party easily reflects on her dressing sense. If she is very excited about the gathering, then this will clearly show on her cloths. Whereas going to a place unwillingly will result in not-so-extravagant clothing: something that will not attract anyone’s attention.
Personal expression, especially of her feelings, is very important for females. If she is a hard working girl who is concerned about her future, her clothing will be general looking with no special effects to attract the crowd. As unknowingly as she would choose clothing that clearly reflects her happy mood, the day she ends up in a fight with her family members, her clothes end up saying it all.
Many times during parties one might find her changing clothes more than once in one particular day. That is all because she is very excited and wants the world to know it.
Slight analysis of a female’s daily change of clothing will take men who want to understand her state of mind a long way. BUT do not include clothing at work as those are influenced by the surroundings and the rules and regulations of that place.
