the Senorita | Discovering Her

A smiling female face is always appreciated by males. In fact, many go on to say that they are ready to do anything for that one smile. While in the early stages of a relationship males try to bring smiles on her face, and whenever she is upset they try their best to make her feel better. But, as the relationship progresses the excitement starts fading and an on-going dull mood starts to frustrate him. The result is either that he prefers to leave her all alone, or else shouts her and blames her for everything wrong.

He tries to point out how concerned he is for their relationship as well as for her; yet, it seems as if that is never enough for her. Once the dark clouds move on from over her head, he starts enjoying her company again. Men at this stage need to understand the opposite sex. They are human beings also, and bad days come there way also.

Females have the gift of adding romance (or color to be precise) to a relationship, and also love sharing their problems with someone they can trust. Although very good at reciprocating in similar ways, as a relationship progresses males lean more towards materialistic means in order to keep the relationship lively. To accommodate this change, they start working harder and in turn fail to share some valuable time with their significant other.

When a relationship is in its prime time, is when she needs him the most. The biggest mistake will be ignoring her during this sensitive period because it will only end up in newly developed trust issues from her side.

Males at this point think that she is expecting too much from him, even though he is already working day and night for their relationship. He wants her to “adjust” to his newly found way of making her happy, and if she rejects it he gets confused, in turn upsetting her too. What all males really just need to do is sit next to her, postpone all other commitments and listen to her. His hand on her shoulder is the ultimate medicine to heal her mood.

If men have some concern for their relationships, then all they need to do is remain consistent with their old behavior (the behavior with which she fell in love with.) The day you change your natural behavior in order to improve the circumstances is the day you will mess up everything. Be with her in every kind of situation and that is all she wants from you.