Comments on: Good Girls Like Bad Boys!

By: Salman

Salman — Wed, 09 Jul 2008 23:16:21 +0000

thankfully all this is virtual else you guys might have started to kick each other buy now…like in parliaments

you actually have made this post to be the second most popular post in this blog when it comes to commenting. My first post raised 19 comments and this one already has 17 of them (including this one) …good going Mr. writer

and as zafar said…don’t apologize..be firm with what you said and be ready to discuss it … jus no need to apologize..

as far as this off topic discussion Opposites Attract is concerned …I think it is the gift of movies which we watch regularly. I just don’t believe that sumone who is totally opposite to me will be attracted to me or I will start running behind her. NO! as time passes you will come to know that their were some hidden similarities which were the reason why you to started gelling together.

No set rule, no set article, no set tips…its all about time..here we just try to make things a little simpler…

by the way you can have a new article hint here “Do opposites really attract?”

try it if you want to…I already have a backup of around 8 articles ready with me so I won’t be trying this for next couple of months..

By: zafar

zafar — Wed, 09 Jul 2008 19:02:01 +0000

hey very first pukit we r discussin here a topic…so everyone hav there point of view..and that doesnt necessary everyone shud thnk same…so no need to apology kinda thngg..nahi to i wont b able to write wht i thott abt a particular topic..and abt mtv topic..debate cant stop…u can thnk that itz nt gud..but i thnkk..everyone haz a ryte to take thng accoding to himm..cz wht we thnk here in many term is bad…is nt bad or against culture in west..so itz totally upbringing and enviroment that affect..and positivity kinda thng..i jst try to give advice to the boyzz..who can carried away by this topic…cz ur headingzz is jst attack directly on the ppl mind.and strength their ongoin funda “Bad is Gud”..n .can compel a guy thnk like…badness is necessity for a so call gf thng..and dear u r again mixing up the topicss..no need to simplyfying too m ch.czz ooposite attractz is so true in term of likin and dislikin b/w a gl and bad…but we r nt sayin that will applicable evrywhere..here ma mean to say by opposite attractz thng..wen u havin sumthn unsuaul with u whether itz internal or externall..u will get noticed and u cant deny of that..and wht u said gud glz like bad boyzz…thtz due to uncommoness..to break the boredom of gudness….and oppsoite attrack nt meann u wiill surely hav a crush on a ppl or hate kinda…but itzz help two pppl to come closer either in term of person u start love,like or frndshpp or start hatinn,rivalry kinda…opposite attractz meanzz unusuality clashes,come in notice easliy…..

By: pulkit

pulkit — Wed, 09 Jul 2008 12:15:10 +0000

i also noticed nearly every reader with the clear viewpoint of opposites attract…
but i am a firm believer that this happens in the case of a little complex from within cos i believe that birds of a feather flock together, since i had been researching on disputed topics lately for my own blog then if opposites attract whats the whole dispute between blacks and white race?? anyways if u also believe that opposite attract then just think about the girl or boy u had a crush on, was she or he totally opposite to u? or think of the boy or girl u hated the most , was the person just similar to u? well if the person u hate is not ur opposite neither similar, then what is it? the point of opposite attraction in the above para has been justified by a motherly compassion of females that i have mentioned and its too apt for them cos i believe the r “complicated”, and thats what makes them “intresting”, so pls justify any other similar evidence and pls note the concluding para as well as the clear distinction beteen like and love that have been mentioned ablove, it might help u to be with my theme and enjoying this work even more… happy reading!!

By: pulkit

pulkit — Wed, 09 Jul 2008 12:06:08 +0000

(@comment 1)(sunny)thanks for the appreciation,the only way that i seem to know for now is that this tendency di exist,will further analyse some day how to find them
(@ comment 2)(zelda) this one is probably the closest to the view that i wanted to conclude, thanks for such in depth feed back, i really appreciate it .
(@ comment 3)(joanne) thanks for the feedback
(@ akriti) thanks for verifying the work with ur honest reply!! ur time and feedback had always been precious for me sis
(@ irisha) thanks for commenting on the work mam and for all the support and help that u always gave me while working for it
(@ rohit) its good to get compliment of being close to girl’s heart by a fellow boy
(@ zafar sir) i had always been heavily critisised by my pessimistic attitude towards M tv roadies etc etc but with the comparitive increase of this trend i mentioned in here, as it is this phenomena might be present in the villages too but my mention of urban life came cos that was my personal inspiration for it, i have clearly stated that this is not an attmept to change positivity in boys and thereby still if i hurt ur sentiments in anyway,i apologise
(@ salman sir) thanks for all the support sir, i have always been heavily critisiced for the themes that i chose for the articles and that comments are always close to my heart so dont worry it wud not demoralise me instead it makes me proud that how deeply i spat the thoughts in the face of readers, i write what i believe and if i gets critisicm ,then it makes me belief that i was right.. thanks for all the support and love and affection, my mentor!!

By: Salman

Salman — Tue, 08 Jul 2008 18:46:57 +0000

looks like people aren’t reading the last couple of lines of this article (may be because it is a little lengthy)

“Whether this liking turns to love or marriage or anything else is not what is my concern but this is a fact that good girls like bad boys…”

hold on to your nerves Pulkit…readers seemed to have messed it up a little..I still appreciate this article considering that it was just the #2

By: zafar

zafar — Tue, 08 Jul 2008 18:31:12 +0000

hey i thnk this tyme pukit jst too mch simplifying the topicc….cz this so natural phenomena..opposite attracts..ppl try to find shelter there..which complement them… these applicable to gud gl also..cz they jst got fed upp of their guddy guudy kinda lyfe…..and u cant jst say simplfyy all gud gl or bad gllzz like bad boy…this is nt true….and in second paragraph..he mentioned that due to effect of mtv and all…i dnt thnk so..and even in the pastttt in villages…glz alwayzz like that kinda guy..jst shw in filmzz thakurs son and all!!..cz alwayz unusual count in crowd..and here applies too in the case of glzzz whether they r bad or gud…cz usualyy so called bad boy mentioned here havin the quality that badly needed by the boyzz to impress gll..whehter cool lukz,bikezz,,or six pack abs[:P]..but at end of theyy….the likin of bad boyy…is jst like crush kinda thngz..that happen and happen at each n every day,week, monthz and so on…so this will goes continuee….cz that kinda frndshpp doesnt exist longg…so gud guy no need to worryy..u dnt need to live fake lyfec for posin urself super cool…czz truth is alwayzz there to livee.. .hav funnn

By: Salman

Salman — Mon, 07 Jul 2008 19:09:00 +0000

hey bud..good to see you here

seems like you have seen many cases where girls end up falling for guyz.

By: rohit

rohit — Mon, 07 Jul 2008 19:06:57 +0000

you have really spoken the hearts of a girl. Girls are really pessimist abt bad guys but eventually end in liking them too.

By: Salman

Salman — Mon, 07 Jul 2008 16:15:09 +0000

well, this is interesting. You seem to be promoting the article very well Pulkit You have started to learn the basics of blogging very well. After writing you need to promote what you have written..

@ comment 2 (zelda): I agree 100% with you. Guys should wait for the right girl (and same goes with girls) instead of scrwing up their lives with the opposite sex who is their to have fun..just have fun!

@ comment 3 (Joanne): lolz..short and to the point…

@ comment 6 (Rowena): yeah ..that is what for they come close to us…to change us…but at the end..they themselves are changed!! at least in cases which I have seen…may be I have those kinda friends who prefer changing people around them instead of changing themselves

@ comment 8 (akrati): I liked the way you pointed out mutual responsibility. very true..guys to seem to give up themselves for the external charm which girls seem to posses. but you cannot help…guys are that way…

@ comment 9 (irisha): you said exactly what pulkit has said..it is about “liking”..he never wanted you people to confuse love and liking with this article…his last article on this blog was about love…this one about liking..their is that marginal difference which he has stated…correctly I think?!?!

By: irisha

irisha — Mon, 07 Jul 2008 15:16:35 +0000

hmmm…dtzz rlyy vryy sweet dear pulkit….bt i dn knw yyy…u knw i agreee daht may b GOOD GALZ LIK BAD BOYZZZ bt itz juz al abt likinnn dtzz itt…or u may cal it infctutnn u knw…..u knw naaa OPPSITE ATTRCTZZ!!! itz juz kind f one challngee….daht good galz wna to b with bad boyzz btt atlstt dfntllyy thy prefrr GOODY GOODY BOYZZ OKI,,,,,