the Senorita | Discovering Her

What is it exactly that makes you do something? Specially when it comes to making a friend with someone belonging to an opposite sex, what is it exactly that you look for? Well your answer can range from good looks to good nature if you are a boy but for girls there is something more important than anything else, it is not love, neither it is care, nor it is money, it is HAPPINESS. It is that smile which makes her look the most beautiful girl in the world. All that she wants from you is that you must have that charisma to make her smile the way no one does.

A start of any relationship is marked with some cute exchange of eye contact, some meetings, some phone calls, some chats and everything else. She starts believing the guy and then develops a certain rationality of a human emotion, the one we refer as love. But then again all this while she has one thing in common and it is that smile, yeah that very smile that comes on her face every time she sees her phone buzzing with your sms, but gradually each one of us has a limited number of innovative cards in our pocket and time and again it becomes harder for us to fetch the new jokes and a new humor and then comes a period when someone new to her life, it can be even our friend or someone new in the list of friends of her life that can bring that very smile which we no longer have the ability to bring. Then again we distract from the basic path and tries to make her feel special by speaking our heart out to her, saying again and again how much we love her but that is not which can make things special again. Well then again, i must repeat that she is neither betraying you nor is your relationship at a dangerous level of sudden end but there is something that surely is ending, yeah gradually it is ending and that is the element of fun in between you two. Neither your tears nor your hugs and kisses, nothing will be able to get it back cos all that she actually wants is a smile, a lighter moment, a sort of wings that can make her feel in the air when she is with you. Don’t you think that some of these things happen again and again, this decrease of fun with the passage of time and all.

That ridiculous absence of fun is what results in the feeling of taking each other for granted, i mean yeah! You do have a partner that is there for you to share your pains and problems but i am sorry to say that now a days no one wants that. Just take her as just another friend, i mean be in love with her but talk to her just the way you talk to your male buddies, crack jokes, be yourself and there is no need to show her too much that you love her etc etc… all those sentimental talks are not the reason why she talks to you, the reason is that she laughs when she is with you so why not just do that, make her smile, you know it how to do that! You had always done that! So do it now also, she is not the person to expect returns but to give only, accept this fact, don’t get frustrated by this fact but if you will feel it and have the ability to refresh your mind then you would feel that i am right.

Summing up the content for all those who had ended up confused by reading all this :

• make her smile as long as she is with you
• tears and compassion are not that important as much as your jokes are
• let her never be able to know you completely, always have a surprise for her
• hide your pains and problems from her also just the way you do it from everyone else
• all that matters between you two and the soul reason why you two got engaged had always been the smile and fun that you shared and nothing else.

Flirt with her or do whatever that turns her on, giving her a pair of new ear rings or taking her out for a movie is not that important as much as that little joke she can hear from you at an unexpected ramdom moment, you always expected her to be the one in whose lap you can share your failures but sadly and quickly accept the fact that her love is there at the best till the time you are at the edge, she will be there to help you every time but eventually without even her notice her love will decrease. Let yourself be the one for whose phone call she waits and waits cos with you she has the best time of her life and that best time can never come from sentimental talks or tears of love or anything else, keep it simple and just be make her smile and that’s it!! Try it today!!

This article is a guest post from Pulkit, a passionate print media writer, who is trying hard to switch to this mad planet of bloggers. He happens to be a great friend of mine and possess all the ingredients to be a famous blogger. Do check his new blog on blogger.